There are many ways to make a marriage work and be successful. Each couple will have their own understanding and expectations. What may work for your parents or friends may not work for you, so it’s most important that you and your future spouse are in agreement on how your relationship will work. Below are […]
I have been dating this woman for just about three years. We had a good relationship and I love her a lot. She wanted to marry me and gave me an ultimatum that if I didn’t marry her she was going to the west coast to work for her family. I told her that I loved her but the marriage thing scares me. She has been out there for six months now. I want her back so bad now and told her about a month ago that I want to marry her, but she says that the things she wanted in life have changed and she needs to further her self in life. I told her I made a huge mistake and I will do anything. I have a good job and have been with the same company for 20 years but I don’t know if living out west has made her see bigger and better things. I am not a cheater. I work hard but was just scared to get married again after a failed marriage seven years ago. I have never felt this way before about a woman. I told her how I feel about her and even called her mother. Do I now give her, her space? We use to talk almost every day. I don’t know what I should do. She tells me I’m too late. She struggled here with jobs and maybe I should have helped her with that more. She said to me that everyone thought she would fail out there but she is still there. What can I do? It’s hard not to cry when I talk to her. She said she doesn’t need to start a relationship. I have never seen her act this way before and be so cold.
Recently a famous professional athlete broke off an engagement two days before the wedding and in a radio interview someone asked me whether or not he should have gone through with it anyway. Absolutely not!! I don’t think it’s ever too late to back out on a wedding. Is it wrong, hurtful and inappropriate? Yes, […]
When it comes to dating, if and when you should air your dirty laundry depends on the nature of your relationship. When you first start dating I don’t think you should tell too much too soon. It’s good to maintain an air of mystery about certain things until you can at least determine if the […]
Each half hour episode of “Wedlock or Deadlock” features an engaged couple that has serious concerns about their relationship and wonder whether they have what it takes to get married. When each show begins, the couple hands over their marriage license to me. At the end of the show I will either return it to […]
