I am a 30 year old used to be, has been “player.” I was engaged to the sweetest woman I’ve ever known. We were engaged for two years. The problem is my past lifestyle. It caused me to lose her. Now she is with someone else and I respect that, but I still love her. I see now more than ever how much she meant to me. She tells me that she is in love with him, but I know her, I can tell when she is lying. Every time we talk it always ends up leading to the past. She moved in with him right after our break-up, but we still continued to see each other. She says that she can’t believe in the change I’ve made because people can’t change over night. I want to spend the rest of my life with her. Help?
I recently stopped dating someone. She felt that we could know longer see each other, but she insists that we can still call and talk to each other. I don’t call, but she feels like I should still call her as if we are still in a relationship. I need to know if I need to tell her that if she wants to call me she can, but I don’t have to call her. I don’t want to play any games with her as I stated from the start of our relationship. What is your advice to me? Please help me?
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