I believe we can learn a lot from each other’s difficulties and accomplishments. I created the Ask Dr. Michelle column to share my advice with many people at the same time, who although they don’t know it, are often facing some of the same challenges. I hope that my comments provide you with some insight into situations that you are facing in your life. If you have a question that you want me to answer, submit it below. I wish you all the best. (I try to answer as many questions as possible, but please understand that due to the number of questions that I receive I am not able to answer every question.)
Should I hide my vibrator to spare my boyfriend’s ego?
No. Lots of guys see vibrators as a way to make sex even more exciting. Tell him you’d like to enhance the amazing sex you already have–that way, he’ll see your toy positively, not as inadequacy on his part. Then show him how you like to be stimulated. He’ll get off on the visual and receive a sexy education.