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How do I become a successful relationship and family counselor?

  • Question: I watch you on TV and I must say that I love what you do. My major is sociology and my minor is psychology. My aspirations are to go to graduate school and get my Master’s in Counseling and become certified in Marriage and Family Therapy. My question is “do you have any advice for someone who is aspiring to become a relationship counselor?” Is there any specific path that I should take in order to become a successful relationship and family counselor?

  • Answer: There are several approaches to a career as a mental health professional who specializes in working with couples.  You could become a clinical psychologist, a counseling psychologist, a clinical social worker, a marriage and family therapist, or a relationship coach.  Each profession differs by its focus on human behavior and its approach to helping the client(s) resolve problems.  In order to know which classes to take and subjects to major in, you really have to do more research to understand which of these jobs (or others) might appeal to you most.  Most of the careers require a master’s degree or a Ph.D. and when you are finished with graduate school you typically have to take an exam and become “licensed” to practice psychotherapy in your state.

    Some great places to look for more information are:
    •    The American Psychological Association (www.apa.org).  Visit http://www.apa.org/students/brochure/index.html for an online brochure about careers in psychology that explains all of the different types of psychology (clinical, developmental, social, etc.), what psychologists do and how to plan your education and career as a psychologist.

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    www.apa.org).  Visit http://www.apa.org/students/brochure/index.html for an online brochure about careers in psychology that explains all of the different types of psychology (clinical, developmental, social, etc.), what psychologists do and how to plan your education and career as a psychologist.

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